Today I'm going with my husband to play duplicate bridge. Now, I've played rubber bridge for a long time. Several of our couple friends play and it is a pleasant way to spend an evening. My husband has been trying to convince me to start playing duplicate bridge. He's been playing for several years. He has other partners but he would like me to be available when the others aren't.
I've been resisting. The idea of playing with complete strangers, some of whom are determined to win more Masters points just doesn't sound like fun to me. Also, it means having to learn and remember a whole lot of conventions. Again, that doesn't appeal either.
Well, today I'm going with him. I figure that as we age, it will be good if there are activities we enjoy together. He notes that there are alot of older people who play at his club; it provides them with both mental stimulation, as well as social contact. I'm a little nervous, but in the end I will probably enjoy myself and I know it will please him no end. Now all I have to do is figure out what the quid pro quo is going to be!
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Spring and Renewal
5 weeks ago
My folks have been bridge fanatics from the beginning of their relationship. Over the years their social network (actual people, not online) has grown to include many wonderful couples in the area all sharing a common interest in bridge. My siblings and I played many years ago and when we take out annual Tahoe trip, may find ourselves at the table bidding and trumping and having a good old time. It truly is something that you can do at any age, something that couples can do together, and it keeps your brain sharp with all the conventions. Good luck and enjoy!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment. It is good to hear stories like yours. My husband and I took up golf several years ago and part of the reason was so that we could play together when we retired. Sharing interests in retirement certainly helps, I think, as couples adjust to being retired.
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